Being a teacher is one of the most important jobs in the world, but it’s far from easy and can feel thankless at times. While giving a gift at the end of the school year isn’t required, it’s a nice way to tell teachers THANK YOU for being there for our kids every day. We asked our readers on Facebook for their suggestions on what — and what not — to give.

The most common response? Skip on gifting mugs. (Most teachers don’t need more “Best Teacher” swag.) Instead, opt for gift cards (even just $5) and/or a thoughtful note. (Several teachers mentioned they still look back at handmade cards from their students years later.)

Read on for more gift recommendations from parents and teachers:

What NOT To Get

“Mugs. I’ve accumulated so many freaking mugs in teaching years. We just had a batch go to a thrift store, and we still have more in our cabinets!” – Alexa Marie

“Usually no food unless you know them and it’s something that they like.” – Christine Volbrecht Wise

“Don’t buy them supplies as gifts. If they need supplies, buy that separately. The supplies are for the kids.” – Tiffany Price

“Please no alcohol. Not all teachers drink!” – Beth Marie

“No gift certificates to local places unless you know that the teacher lives in the town.” – Siobhan Wiatr

“They do not need more ‘World’s Best Teacher’ items.” – Shanese I. Johnson

“I would avoid bath products and candles. Scents are very much a personal preference.” – Kristen Martin

“Nothing that says ‘Teachers touch hearts and change the world’ etc. I have so many tea towels with that sentiment, and it’s very sweet but also not how I want to decorate my home.” – Marie Lister

What To Get Instead

“I’m a teacher and truly the best gifts are heartfelt notes from the kids. When they include a memory or something they learned, it just reminds you why you do what you do.” – Kelly Gill Loeffler

“I used to think it was impersonal until my teacher friends told me it was the most ‘personal’ gift they could get: cash. They can spend it everywhere and get whatever they need/want.” – Monica Strye Foley

“I used to deliver a special lunch during teacher appreciation week to my kids’ teachers. They loved it. I’d drop off a menu and then place the order and deliver!” – Brandie Lumpkin Schwartz

“This is going to sound weird but pencils. My students never return them, and I’m always out. Other school supplies are great too.” – Jessica Catania

“I bought a session with a local photographer for my daughter’s teacher and her family.” – Jess McCloskey

“I give my teachers wine gift cards for a bottle of their choice to start the summer with. I know how my kids act…I know that they need it after 10 months with them.” – Sam Jones

“As a former teacher, I can honestly say that no gift was ever unappreciated or unused. In fact, I often photograph myself using a gift and send to the student years later via messenger. I remember the student when I use the item, and I love that!” – Cindy Hogentogler

“Best present I ever received from a parent was a nice quality beach towel and sunblock.” – Jennifer Pinto Finney

“I’m a big fan of the ‘These Are a Few of My Favorite Things’ list. Printable from Pinterest. My kiddos PTA does this and publishes it on their website. It’s been incredibly useful.” – Jennifer Ruble-Darnton

“My best gift of 36 years of teaching was a jar with 100 slips of paper. Each slip had something written on it about funny things that happened in class, what the student liked about our class, or about me. I still have it.” – Jana Bean Wilson

“I made a teacher emergency snack box. Popcorn, nuts, candy, protein bars, chips, crackers, gum, cookies. All my kids’ teachers say it’s their favorite gift.” – Roxie Lynn

“I once got beautiful gift wrapping paper, bows, ribbons…Best gift I ever got and super useful too. It honestly lasted me the whole year.” – Kerry Leigh de Jager

“I knew the teacher loved getting new recipes, so I gathered each of the students’ favorite recipes from their families and put into a recipe book.” – Jen Winningham

“The best gift is a kind and flattering email to the principal. CC the teacher. We just want to feel appreciated and like we’re doing a good job/making a difference. Words of affirmation don’t cost a thing. ” – Courtney Mundt Atkins

“I’ve had a few pieces of clothing or accessories picked out for me by my kiddos, such as shirts, necklaces, or earrings. The kids have a way of just knowing what you love and finding something perfect.” – Sarah Lammie

“I’m moving overseas. One of my elementary students gave me a card that said, ‘Will you be my pen pal?’ I said yes. Then she handed me a beautiful stationery set and her address. I cried. BEST.GIFT.EVER!” – Esther Munguia

“Last year I did a food bank donation on their behalf.” – Sarah Somerville

“I always buy with this question in mind: Would this teacher need 25-30 of the exact same gift? I usually stick with gift cards, coffee, and wine!” – Molly Anderson

“Forget the ‘gifts.’ None of that matters. Get some good quality stationery and write them a heartfelt thank-you note. I would save any positive notes of thanks I received and keep them in a file. They were a reminder that I made a difference.” – Steve Maciejewski

Responses have been lightly edited for clarity.

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